Girl Power: Nyala Wright

Posted by Unknown at 11:11 AM
While Houston is an amazing, emerging, southern city- I sometimes find my mind drifting and asking about the "what ifs" as it relates to packing it up and moving to another major market. But then I run into someone who reminds me of New York because of their unique style, LA because of their contagious energy and Paris because of their international perspectives. Nyala Wright is the Associate Director of Fundraising at the Houston Center for Contemporary Craft and reminds me that Houston is just getting started and there is much, so much to appreciate about this southern gem. Get to know her...

Q. Describe your personal style and personal brand:  

A. My personal brand reflects fearlessness when it comes to putting things together. Down home and urban, I am definitely a southern girl with a Brooklyn sensibility. My parents grew up in Detroit and witnessed the black power movement, but my brother and I grew-up in the ultra-conservative Houston of the 80's. I spent most of my twenties living in Brooklyn, so I'm gumbo when in comes to thought and action. The more ingredients you put in, the more flavor you get out. 
 
Q. What do you love most about Houston?  

A. Houston is fertile ground. Certainly more than any major city in the country, Houston is resilient and only at the beginning of its maturation as a world-class leader in arts, culture, and commerce. There is so much work to be done to get there, and it's just job security for those of us invested in the city's future. It's thrilling to be in Houston right now, because it really is a world stage for the unforeseen and unforeheard. There is nothing more exciting to me than the prospect of doing what's never been done, and Houston represents that to me.

Q.  In a few words, why do you feel that it's important for the non-profit sector to embrace social media?  

A. Although technology changes, our souls never do. We all want to be connected to each other and feel like unique individuals within a unified group and social media is the current platform at our disposal. It is essential that the non-profit sector embrace social media because it provides an inexpensive way to communicate with the masses. An organization's ability to communicate its unique mission in an exciting, attractive and memorable way determines its ability to grow, thrive, and succeed.

Q. 
How do you achieve work, life, balance?  

A. Eat, love, pray.  Not necessarily in that order.  Seriously, it's a daily struggle. 

Q. What's on your radar? What's next?  

A.  As Associate Director of Fundraising for www.crafthouston.org, I am working on a year's worth of events celebrating the center's 10th anniversary season. It will culminate with the already infamous Martini Madness cocktail fundraiser on  September 22, 2011. In my 'spare' time, I am also hosting a fundraiser with Joy Sewing for workshophouston.org on April 2, 2011 that will feature the creative talents of the children involved in their after-school programs and professional Houston artists like The Kracker Nuttz and Charles Criner. And I am really happy to be working with David Anderson and Donnie Scantz to bring Houston's own Robert Glasper Experiment to Bambou in Rice Village on March 17, 2011. It's going to be a spectacular concert. Busy calendar. Full heart. Happy life. Next, is figuring out the right opportunity to collaborate with Medley.

Of course, I'm beyond excited about the possibility of collaborating with Ms. Wright. In the short time I've known her, she's been willing to share knowledge and wisdom, and has "schooled" me on all sorts of cool brain candy:). To keep up with Nyala on the social circuit follow her on Twitter at @BossyWoman.

No Longer a Victim...of Retail Therapy

Posted by Unknown at 10:03 PM
It's been over 38 days since I've last been a victim of the shopping racks. Proud of myself is an understatement..surprised would be my choice descriptor. I'm surprised that I've gone this long without the slightest urge to spend. Not the slightest.

I want to travel and invest in my business...and travel. So my two cents to anyone battling with financial decisions is to seriously. Seriously. Take some time to prioritize...can't take the shiny things with you when the curtains close, and you'd be surprised by how fly some of those pieces you haven't touched in years look with the right accessory or when rocked with confidence.

That said, I'm awful at remembering to take pictures of my vintage pieces, pre-alterations. But just imagine big, bulky pieces made for women much more curvy, taller, thicker than lil ol' me and check out the below "after" shots. Picture these gems accessorized (it's near my bed time, so it ain't happenin').

Uche Egele is a fashion designer and my go-to-gal for revamped pieces...I haven't quite figured out how I'll manage to survive when she goes off to school at FIDM in the fall. But while she's here, hit her up on Twitter at @FashunMogul2b or via email at um.egele@yahoo.com. She.Is.Everything.


This lovely vest is something I found at a thrift store last year for less than 5 bucks (I never spend more than $5 on an item at a thrift store), bought some new buttons from Hobby Lobby, got it taken in a bit and voila!


Ha! This was actually my brothers suit jacket from when he was like 4. He's now 27. I love it, it's unbelievably difficult to find tailored jackets for my frame. We cut the sleeves some because they were cutting off my circulation;).



This is my Jackie Kennedy jacket. I will be spotted in this many times. A thrift store find from like 2 years ago...got it taken in and been in love ever since.



I'm a skirt gal...big time. This used to belong to my great-grandma, who had a waist as small as mine and...you know the rest. Granny was bad to the bone. We were able to keep the pockets, and it actually gives the illusion that I have hips! Ha!



The back. Love the unassuming slit.

Stay tuned..perhaps I'll remember to do the before shots next time.


You ROCK...Why Aren't You Blogging?

Posted by Unknown at 10:04 PM
This should go without saying, but yes it's 2011 and it still needs to be said. If you're a business owner, a personality, an interesting person, or...ummm...just a person- start a blog. And yes, this may sound very basic, and I'm sure you've heard it before- but for some reason I'm still seeing some AMAZING brands with INCREDIBLE products and services that do not have a blog (sorry, I felt the need to yell- it's only because I care).

What's worse is the really cool-quirky people who've managed to brand themselves on accident and don't quite see it (kills me because I'm mad cheesy and their so darn cool).

Yeah, we know you rock on Twitter, Facebook, and you're probably the Mayor at all of the trendy eateries in town on Foursquare, but where do people go when they reaaaallly want to know you?

You frequent Mashable, The YBF, The Satoralist (or whatever blog you fancy) daily so you totally get it. Start your own blog. Be consistent with updates. Share information...and have fun;).

Below are some great resources for those of you who are starting fresh, for the rest of ya- you know the drill;).

How to Start a Blog

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My Team is Better than Yours

Posted by Unknown at 7:41 PM

It's true. Since these kiddos are too humble and kind to brag about themselves, I thought I'd take a moment to share with you their awesomeness. This post is about so much more than Medley, relationships and industry emotions. I'm really in no position to say what you're team is like, so obviously your team may rock too-  but I'm grateful to work with and learn from mine. 

Besides being a triple-checking editor, stickler for getting the facts right and an all around positive chick, Alexis "Fly" Jones, the Vice President of Medley,  is a soon-to-be published author and rockstar personal brander (yeah I made that title up). In a society where urban-anything is typically frowned upon, she's been able to carry the signature "fly" brand with her throughout her various professional endeavors. 

I think she's mastered this by truly knowing her craft. It's one thing to have a catchy, urban brand and be nothing more than a catchy, urban person. It's another thing when the APA style book is inherently at the forefront of your thoughts, and you've become know as a person of genuine integrity. It should go without saying that Ms. Fly fits the description of the latter.

We recently had the opportunity to address a group of teens through the POWER UP Program presented by Keey Zone for Teens and I'm sure everyone in the room could see her sincere desire to touch someones life. Alexis is a philanthropist and servant above all else.

I was introduced to Alexis by Ryan Small, the Medley New Media Director of Medley and my bird (Get it? From the Notebook? Hope so...otherwise this is awkward;). Anyway, Ryan is a rockstar and in addition to Medley, he recently started a new business called AMP Studio and he's also the man behind Texas Southern University's web marketing campaign. 

Ryan is a self-trained music video producer and he constantly pushes the envelope by tapping into a wide-range of video genres. He is truly a renaissance man, whether it's business or pleasure. To me his brand is unpredictable and refreshing. 

I love the fact that Ryan can walk into any room and feel right at home. He's mastered the art of the five minute conversation (a skill most professionals aspire to have) and is known by the person in charge practically everywhere he goes. Few men could deal with the sometimes aggressive, stubborn and persistent personalities of Alexis and I, but Ryan handles it well and constantly reminds us of how much he thinks we rock. 

I'm one lucky gal indeed. Sometimes we need to reflect on just how awesome those around us are. And tell them. Sometimes we need to share it with the world, because they are too modest to do so. Modesty and humility are great qualities to have, so I certainly admire these two. That said, I hope your week is lovely and yes- my team is better than yours;).


Keep up with these rockstars by following them on twitter at @Alexis_Fly and @RyanSmall.

2010 Rocked...and was Rocky: Lessons Learned

Posted by Unknown at 11:15 PM

I won't waste your time with a boring New Years resolutions list or joy-kill your day by talking about how awful 2010 was. It just wasn't that bad. I want to share a few lessons I learned in 2010 as a friend, wife, business owner, employee and daughter of Richard and Beverly Perry.

1. The best part of adulthood (opposed to high school and college), is that you get to choose who your friends are. I lost many "friends" in 2010 and I chose not to pursue a friendship with several folks. Yeah, my going-out roster is sort of short....but my life is so much more authentic and the friends I do have are appreciated beyond words.

2. My advice to married folks or soon-to-be is to have fun. My friend @artchild gave me this advice and I live by it completely. I have the most fun with my husband and we try to always show each other something new about the world. Always a surprise.

3. Being a business owner is a huge sacrifice. I mean HUGE. Everyone's not meant to do it. But if you're going to do it, be a business person first and a person of your craft second. Too often we're so excited about our passion and we neglect the idea of being a business person. We have to do better.

4. Sam Fine said it best: "There's a difference between gaining exposure and being exploited." I learned and owned my worth in 2010. Bout time!

5. I truly believe that we owe it to our parents to be in a position to take care of them. I forgot about that for a minute...but now that I've been reminded I'm about to get even more beasty on ya'll;).

I say forget the goals, commitments and the plain out stressful strategies. Just plan to be better in 2011. So much that you look back and ask yourself, "What the heck was I thinking in 2010?" Blessings.

Photo Creds: Brian Ellison

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When Being a Compulsive Shopper Becomes a Drag...

Posted by Unknown at 1:01 PM

About 9 months prior to my wedding earlier this year, I made the vow to not shop anymore. I did pretty good, only breaking my vow on special occasions where cocktail dresses were warranted and when a heavier coat was needed for travel.



Since then I've managed to only go on mini-splurges when traveling or thrifting. However, I've since developed a greater appreciation for the clothes that I currently own and my love for the real, real thrift stores has grown significantly. When you're a true thrifter, it becomes increasingly more difficult to justify spending insane amounts of money on "designer" brands and vintage clothes that are stupidly marked up.



So, one day reality struck. What started happening was, I'd go out and buy an outfit for an event. Wear it. Then go home to my closet and think, "Dang, I forgot about this dress." Which is usually one of my favorite pieces that I don't get enough wear out of. 

(This is just a snapshot of the insane amount of unworn clothes I own)


While I'm not quite as crafty as the New Dress a Day gal, in desperate times I've turned dresses into skirts, dresses into blouses and more. As of Friday, December 10th 2010 I will no longer buy clothes until January 1st 2012. The only exception will be for wedding attire, jewelry, undergarments and shoes (specifically flip-flops...I'm way too rough on them), and the occasional travel necessities. Essentially, I will not be going on any impulsive sprees. Or making any impulsive purchases for that matter. 

Stay tuned for my remixing, self-disciplined and sometimes frustrating journey. I'll also post about my financially liberating experiences;).