You ROCK...Why Aren't You Blogging?

Posted by Unknown at 10:04 PM
This should go without saying, but yes it's 2011 and it still needs to be said. If you're a business owner, a personality, an interesting person, or...ummm...just a person- start a blog. And yes, this may sound very basic, and I'm sure you've heard it before- but for some reason I'm still seeing some AMAZING brands with INCREDIBLE products and services that do not have a blog (sorry, I felt the need to yell- it's only because I care).

What's worse is the really cool-quirky people who've managed to brand themselves on accident and don't quite see it (kills me because I'm mad cheesy and their so darn cool).

Yeah, we know you rock on Twitter, Facebook, and you're probably the Mayor at all of the trendy eateries in town on Foursquare, but where do people go when they reaaaallly want to know you?

You frequent Mashable, The YBF, The Satoralist (or whatever blog you fancy) daily so you totally get it. Start your own blog. Be consistent with updates. Share information...and have fun;).

Below are some great resources for those of you who are starting fresh, for the rest of ya- you know the drill;).

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My Team is Better than Yours

Posted by Unknown at 7:41 PM

It's true. Since these kiddos are too humble and kind to brag about themselves, I thought I'd take a moment to share with you their awesomeness. This post is about so much more than Medley, relationships and industry emotions. I'm really in no position to say what you're team is like, so obviously your team may rock too-  but I'm grateful to work with and learn from mine. 

Besides being a triple-checking editor, stickler for getting the facts right and an all around positive chick, Alexis "Fly" Jones, the Vice President of Medley,  is a soon-to-be published author and rockstar personal brander (yeah I made that title up). In a society where urban-anything is typically frowned upon, she's been able to carry the signature "fly" brand with her throughout her various professional endeavors. 

I think she's mastered this by truly knowing her craft. It's one thing to have a catchy, urban brand and be nothing more than a catchy, urban person. It's another thing when the APA style book is inherently at the forefront of your thoughts, and you've become know as a person of genuine integrity. It should go without saying that Ms. Fly fits the description of the latter.

We recently had the opportunity to address a group of teens through the POWER UP Program presented by Keey Zone for Teens and I'm sure everyone in the room could see her sincere desire to touch someones life. Alexis is a philanthropist and servant above all else.

I was introduced to Alexis by Ryan Small, the Medley New Media Director of Medley and my bird (Get it? From the Notebook? Hope so...otherwise this is awkward;). Anyway, Ryan is a rockstar and in addition to Medley, he recently started a new business called AMP Studio and he's also the man behind Texas Southern University's web marketing campaign. 

Ryan is a self-trained music video producer and he constantly pushes the envelope by tapping into a wide-range of video genres. He is truly a renaissance man, whether it's business or pleasure. To me his brand is unpredictable and refreshing. 

I love the fact that Ryan can walk into any room and feel right at home. He's mastered the art of the five minute conversation (a skill most professionals aspire to have) and is known by the person in charge practically everywhere he goes. Few men could deal with the sometimes aggressive, stubborn and persistent personalities of Alexis and I, but Ryan handles it well and constantly reminds us of how much he thinks we rock. 

I'm one lucky gal indeed. Sometimes we need to reflect on just how awesome those around us are. And tell them. Sometimes we need to share it with the world, because they are too modest to do so. Modesty and humility are great qualities to have, so I certainly admire these two. That said, I hope your week is lovely and yes- my team is better than yours;).


Keep up with these rockstars by following them on twitter at @Alexis_Fly and @RyanSmall.

2010 Rocked...and was Rocky: Lessons Learned

Posted by Unknown at 11:15 PM

I won't waste your time with a boring New Years resolutions list or joy-kill your day by talking about how awful 2010 was. It just wasn't that bad. I want to share a few lessons I learned in 2010 as a friend, wife, business owner, employee and daughter of Richard and Beverly Perry.

1. The best part of adulthood (opposed to high school and college), is that you get to choose who your friends are. I lost many "friends" in 2010 and I chose not to pursue a friendship with several folks. Yeah, my going-out roster is sort of short....but my life is so much more authentic and the friends I do have are appreciated beyond words.

2. My advice to married folks or soon-to-be is to have fun. My friend @artchild gave me this advice and I live by it completely. I have the most fun with my husband and we try to always show each other something new about the world. Always a surprise.

3. Being a business owner is a huge sacrifice. I mean HUGE. Everyone's not meant to do it. But if you're going to do it, be a business person first and a person of your craft second. Too often we're so excited about our passion and we neglect the idea of being a business person. We have to do better.

4. Sam Fine said it best: "There's a difference between gaining exposure and being exploited." I learned and owned my worth in 2010. Bout time!

5. I truly believe that we owe it to our parents to be in a position to take care of them. I forgot about that for a minute...but now that I've been reminded I'm about to get even more beasty on ya'll;).

I say forget the goals, commitments and the plain out stressful strategies. Just plan to be better in 2011. So much that you look back and ask yourself, "What the heck was I thinking in 2010?" Blessings.

Photo Creds: Brian Ellison

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When Being a Compulsive Shopper Becomes a Drag...

Posted by Unknown at 1:01 PM

About 9 months prior to my wedding earlier this year, I made the vow to not shop anymore. I did pretty good, only breaking my vow on special occasions where cocktail dresses were warranted and when a heavier coat was needed for travel.



Since then I've managed to only go on mini-splurges when traveling or thrifting. However, I've since developed a greater appreciation for the clothes that I currently own and my love for the real, real thrift stores has grown significantly. When you're a true thrifter, it becomes increasingly more difficult to justify spending insane amounts of money on "designer" brands and vintage clothes that are stupidly marked up.



So, one day reality struck. What started happening was, I'd go out and buy an outfit for an event. Wear it. Then go home to my closet and think, "Dang, I forgot about this dress." Which is usually one of my favorite pieces that I don't get enough wear out of. 

(This is just a snapshot of the insane amount of unworn clothes I own)


While I'm not quite as crafty as the New Dress a Day gal, in desperate times I've turned dresses into skirts, dresses into blouses and more. As of Friday, December 10th 2010 I will no longer buy clothes until January 1st 2012. The only exception will be for wedding attire, jewelry, undergarments and shoes (specifically flip-flops...I'm way too rough on them), and the occasional travel necessities. Essentially, I will not be going on any impulsive sprees. Or making any impulsive purchases for that matter. 

Stay tuned for my remixing, self-disciplined and sometimes frustrating journey. I'll also post about my financially liberating experiences;).
 

Fashion.Tech.Brilliance: My Top Picks for Fashion Brands Dominating the Web

Posted by Unknown at 11:24 PM
While some fashion brands are slightly hesitant to embrace the world of transparent accessibility that comes along with new media, many have jumped on board and are seriously rocking on the web. Check out my top picks for fashion brands dominating the web.

1. Ralph Lauren - Often referred to as the world's most cinematic luxury brand, Ralph Lauren recently hosted a “digital extravaganza,” to conjure up and communicate the world of Ralph Lauren at epic scale and to celebrate the launch of the company’s “digital flagship” in the UK. Check out some of the behind the scenes footage:



2. The Gap - They've recently launched an inspiring video campaign that asks the questions, “If you could give anything in the world, what would it be?” The commercial features several major influencers such as Foursquare co-founders Dennis Crowley and Naveen Selvadurai, and Community star Donald Glover. It's shot beautifully and for each “Like” one of the videos receives on Facebook, $1 will be donated to the charity featured in the video.



3. H&M - They just rock. One of my favorite brands to stalk online, H&M appears to have a 24 hour social media strategy in place, that includes responding, engaging and sharing good, solid information. Not a lot of complexity, just using social media as a creative platform to communicate with their consumers. Below is a clip from their Street Style files in Shanghai. Enjoy, and drop a line about your favorite fashion brands on the web.

I LOVE My Hair & A Little Sunshine

Posted by Unknown at 6:10 PM
After a few weeks of several bizarre happenings on a personal, professional and spiritual level, I was asked to be a part of something that's so special and beyond necessary. No matter who you are, we all need to be inspired...we need to be wowed. And wowed was I...

I was asked to to be featured on Crossroads with the amazing-iconic Melanie Lawson. The segment focused on the "I Love My Hair," song from Sesame Street, which is the result of a conversation between an adorable Ethiopian princess named Segi and her parents. Segi is a 5-year old who, like many of us (and our nieces, daughters and mentees) struggled with the idea of  having "different" hair and expressed her curiosity to her parents. Her dad, Joey Mazzarino, is the head writer of Sesame Street, and is also the Muppeteer who wrote the song.

The concept of having a "hair complex," is a real and manifested truth, and sadly it takes shape in the lives of adult women as well as children. What I left out in the segment is that it's absolutely crucial to instill a sense of confidence in the little ladies in our world. I always used to wonder why my mother was constantly giving me praises about my dark skin and my coarse hair. Thank God she never allowed me to rely on the standards that society's set forth as beautiful.

*Side note- Have you seen Kanye's Runaway video? So relieved to know that artists are still pushing the envelope with the goal in mind to SHAKE up our society....

Anyway, the original "I Love my Hair," video was pure perfection. Please share it and/or the news segment below with the little girls in your world and LOVE your HAIR;)


And to spread some happy....gotta love this little lady. Her energy is contagious! Watch Now...